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Post by Fruin on Feb 13, 2006 12:59:02 GMT
If using mail order, have everything sent to an alternate address. If buying from a shop, try and sneak stuff in when she is not looking. Then if she asks if it's a new rod, you either borrowed it or it's an old one that you've had for ages - deny, deny, deny. If, like me, it's not always easy to lie to your wife, then you must talk about buying a new ? long before the purchase. Complain about your present equipment for a while before the purchase, this takes the sting out of it when the moment arrives. If all this fails then just admit to her that you're a man, she's a woman, she'll never understand and that you will take conselling for your fishing tackle addiction.
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Post by macd on Feb 13, 2006 15:37:38 GMT
They work on emotions...your mistake is to use logic. They have no need for it and always react badly to it . ;D Try crying. macd
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Post by ceilidh on Feb 13, 2006 17:24:49 GMT
You could try getting your wife to take up fishing too, but this could be a double edged sword; if she liked it you might find yourself doubling your tackle expenditure ( but reducing the criticism) and if she became really keen you might find yourself reduced the ghillieing for her for the rest of your life.
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Post by salmonfly on Feb 13, 2006 18:11:52 GMT
I've been fly fishing for a few years now but only started chasing salmon this year. One of the first things I have noticed is that when the word 'Salmon' appears before other words, like 'rod' or 'reel' the price can rise substantially. ;D Whilst happy to spend £30 for a back rub or a face-full of mud, my experience with my lady has shown me that any spending on fishing gear is received with a mixture of incredulity and disdain. "I thought you already have a 'insert term here' why do you need another one? Have you broken it?" With my move up into the serious money spending leagues Im really not sure that my current smoke and mirrors are up to the job. Any advice/justifications which have worked in the past would be greatly received from the more experienced. Thanks on advance, Nolon Owen,Research has showed that, there is nothing that you can do or say that will every stop them from nagging you about buying fishing gear, YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO LIVE WITH IT!! We the fishermen always win in the end. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by JAD on Feb 13, 2006 19:06:54 GMT
Its nice to know I'm not the only one that gets nagged when I buy more fishing tackle JAD
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Post by juniorspey on Feb 13, 2006 20:53:57 GMT
Try a mother!!! ;D they think that one rod will suit ALL purposes!!!!!!!1
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Post by wilbert on Feb 13, 2006 21:58:23 GMT
I am a bit of a master when it comes to smuggling tackle into the house. last year I got 2 new B&W rods 3 spey lines and a Danielsson HD reel and spare spool. Told her the reel cost £150 and that I had been saving for ages and she doesn't know about anything else. I see it as part of the game but don't take it too seriously.
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Post by Bogyoch on Feb 14, 2006 8:35:15 GMT
Divorce is an option.
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Post by glisters on Feb 14, 2006 14:57:27 GMT
Put sale price labels on the goods you can then put whatever price you like on it and she will be pleased you got a bargain
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Post by Fruin on Feb 14, 2006 15:36:18 GMT
Glisters - absolute genius.
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Post by juniorspey on Feb 16, 2006 18:46:51 GMT
Funny how we can't buy fishing stuff- have you ever seen a woman go past a shoe shop with out buying anything?...................... NO!!!
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Post by zeolite on Feb 16, 2006 22:26:43 GMT
My wife is a keen fisher although I end up buying and tackling up. I have no hope of getting anything past her because she knows what quality tackle is and enjoys browsing catalogues. Just have to take her with me although she is not so keen on the scrambling type of beats.
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